You may feel the need to soften a message you want to share today so that it is more likely to be accepted. However, if you sugarcoat what you need to say, then you can't be sure the other party is going along with the truth, rather than some other idealized perception. You need to be candid and clear, and you have to convey exactly what you are thinking and feeling. Otherwise, Aquarius, it could be unintentionally misleading. It might be more difficult, but in the end it will be far more rewarding.