If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. That adage is usually shared with someone who is overwhelmed by a situation they have gotten involved in. Loved ones may be encouraging you to remove yourself from a stressful or troublesome situation, dear Libra. If so, they're concerned about your well-being. However, if you feel you can handle it, stop complaining about it. Find some other way to release the stress, and continue to persevere. Sometimes it is your own reaction to stress that is the actual problem. If you handle it calmly, it will be far easier to endure.