You may be wrapped up in someone's "apron strings," dear Moonchild, and this probably is not a parent. There is someone in your life who has become a reliable source of help and guidance, which is a great thing, but you may have become overly dependent on them over time. There is nothing at all wrong with having someone in your life who provides a source of warmth, comfort, reassurance, and help - but if you become too dependent, it can take away your own power. The next time you feel drawn to rely on this person for something you can do yourself, do it yourself. Break the strings.