We are conditioned to believe that we can't "have it all." Over time, we come to expect disappointment and sometimes settle for less than we deserve. And after a while, we stop aiming as high as we should. You may be on the verge of accepting something that isn't quite suitable for you simply because you feel it's the best you can do. But maybe you can be better. You will never know, though, Cancer, if you don't at least try to hit a higher mark.